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The Other Side of the Fence follows a former working mama as she explores "the other side of the fence" first-hand as a temporary stay-at-home mom.

Thursday, August 2, 2012

What's been on my mind

iPhone mania: I finally entered the smart phone world with my very own iphone. I love it so much. I immediately downloaded a million apps and it totally appeals to my obsessive personality. More lists to make, more ways to check my budget, even a fitness app to enter in my food and exercise. Love. The girls are also enjoying playing games on it, and it amazes me how quickly they’ve picked up how to use it. They also have been calling their play phones iphones. I predict that by the time they are 12, we’ll be paying for the a 4-phone package. Eek.

Speaking of all that, it really makes me wonder what it will be like to be a kid/teenager in today’s world. Whereas home used to a refuge from the big bad world, it is now connected with the multitudes of technology available. Remembering what I do about the cruelty of youth, I can only imagine how much it would sting to be left out of a party and then see photos on Facebook, or to have a frenemy “drop you” from their friend list. I have to put it out of my mind before I hyperventilate.

Kindergarten: Its been looming over me for many months, and now it is August, and in 25 more days, my girl enters the real world. I am confident that she will do fine, but it still scares me a bit. See above re: cruelty of kids. Luckily, my Big A has proven to be an independent spirit who doesn’t get bogged down in doing what everyone else does. Her “I don’t care” attitude (which you really can’t fake) has proven to attract lots of admirers. She’s not a center of attention type girl, but I have no doubt she will find a nice group of kids to be friends with. I just have to remember that.

Potty-training hell: Ugh. For a kid that has met all her milestones ahead of schedule, it really sucks to be behind on a big one like this. Little A successfully used the potty three times to earn a Baby Alive doll, then promptly stopped doing it. She will sit on the potty if we make her, but nothing happens. I know it will happen when she's ready, but this momma is ready to put the diaper days behind her! 

Summer: After a short beach hiatus due to some commitments at home, we’re heading back to the beach this weekend...and for several of the next ones. So although it feels like summer is screeching to a close, we still have some sun and sand left to experience, and I plan to enjoy it to the fullest. My varied childcare plan this summer is drawing to a close as well, and I’m a little happy about that. Its been a nice break for the girls, but a bit hard to keep track of with every week being different. The consistency and routine of school will be a nice change. And I’m sure my house will stay a lot cleaner.

So that’s about where I am these days. Poring over my phone, working on making my tan last for the year and soaking up the last rays of summer. I foresee some big changes coming up this fall so stay tuned!

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